Truthfully, the best date I ever went on was with my husband a few months after we had our first baby. New outfit hiding the post-baby pooch? Check. Reservations at the Boom-Boom Room for a sweet Italian dinner? Check. Babysitter? Check. All of the pieces were in place for the perfect date. And it is still a very memorable date, more than six years later.
I remember that date was the first time I wore heels with jeans and I remember the cool high tables at the restaurant. I remember enjoying Justin and our uninterrupted conversation. I remember carrying a REAL purse and not a diaper bag. But those details have nothing to do with why it was such a fantastic date. That date was great because of stuff on the inside. Something had clicked inside me and I had given myself permission to have the best date ever. I gave myself permission to completely enjoy the experience. I told myself that I deserved to have a great time, and then I did. I have enjoyed many HOT dates since I discovered my own power to have a great time. It was no longer about the right outfit or the right reservation. It was all about my heart and how I treated myself.
It is a funny thing that what we experience is completely influenced by what we condition ourselves to believe. So many of us are creating what we don’t want and that is such a waste of our powerful minds. Stop and ask yourself, “What do I really want? What do I deserve? What will I create?” Condition your mind to only think about the things you REALLY want and watch those experiences flow to you. Whether your schedule includes a hot date, a quiet weekend with the kiddos at home, or a jam-packed weekend with tasks to complete and events to attend, I hope you have the best weekend ever! DECIDE NOW what you will experience and then go make it so.
All my best! Ashlee
PS….If you do have a favorite pair of heels, find a way to wear them this weekend too! 🙂